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My
wife, Chipo Siamafuwa of Fort McMurray, Alberta, (originally from
Kafue, Zambia) has abducted my son Asher on Nov 20, 2023,
which is the
same day that she committed theft of my property.
According to
the CCC (Criminal Code of
Canada): 283 (1) Everyone who, being the parent, guardian or person
having the lawful care or charge of a child under the age of 14 years,
takes, entices away, conceals, detains, receives or harbours that
child, whether or not there is an order referred to in subsection
282(1) in respect of the child, with intent to deprive a parent,
guardian or any other person who has the lawful care or charge of that
child, of the possession of that child, is quilty of
(a)
an
indictable offence and is liable to
imprisonment for a term not exceeding ten years; or
(b)
an offence punishable on summary conviction.
If
a man did this he wd be in prison, but a woman can do it with
impunity.
Here she
agrees (Oct 1, 2023) that if she leaves me she that she cannot take Asher with
her, then later she
lies and denies
having agree to this. She also twice states her intention to take Asher
from me (her intention to commit a crime). Here she admits to making threats and
to provoking me. Then
after apologizing, she continues with her threats and provoking.
Unfortunately
my son Asher is being badly affected by all this, and he is heard to
say "Mommy, I don't want it ... Mommy, I'm crying."
After
she abandoned
me on Nov 20, and since she deprived me of raising my son,
I decided to go to Zambia to check up on the money that I had invested
there, which I had postponed doing because I did not want to be away
from my son. What I discovered was multiple
thefts and frauds that had been committed involving Chipo and Martin
Siamafuwa. There were four properties involved in total. There were 2
duplexes in Kafue that I paid for which are still unaccounted for. This
was my largest expenditure in Zambia. Zero paperwork or
receipts have been produced. If they are honest, then why have they not
produced even one shred of paperwork for the sale of these properties,
if in fact they were sold in the first place, which has not even been
ascertained.
Whichever is the case, there is no paperwork.
She
has used me, amongh other ways, for sex. Then after she
has dumped me, she still wants
another child but this time without sex. The following texts which were
sent to me after I was in Zambia, and she was still in Canada. She
dumps me, refuses to live with me, sleep with me, yet still wants to
use me after all that. Shame shame shame.
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She
will "find another way"
(find
another man to use him also for his sperm, and commit adultery against
me.) I
wd only have consented to another child if it was produced out a loving
and caring relationship in which we remain together as a loving and
caring family, and I as the father I am raising my own children. This
is the "bigger picture". Am I to be expected to give sperm artificially
to create another baby whom I will be deprived of?
Dec
24th,
2024: (I
am still in
Zambia and
my wife Chipo is still in Canada) Chipo has (further) declared today
that I am not allowed to come to Canada to be the father to my son.
(This is the 2d Christmas in a row that I am deprived of enjoying with
my son Asher).
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She
arrived in Canada on Feb 15, 2018. I
had been supporting her
financially for
more than 3 years while she was still in Zambia awaiting to come to
Canada,
and after the expense of hiring an immigration agency and the cost of
the trip and other expenses, and now that she has Canadian citizenship
and a healthy son, then to hell with me. She has no further need for me
so she dumps me but stays in Canada, after we agreed that we return to
Zambia where I was making provisions for her here in Zambia. I
met with her mother Jane Siamafuwa in Kafue who automatically took the
position against me. (So
what was the point of
paying the
dowry?) Follow the money. (and the sperm)
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On Jan 2d on voice chat my son told me "daddy come back" which broke my heart because how can I explain to him what is happening when he was only 3 years and 9 months old at that time? (I did not leave my son but was forced out by her threats). I have created this website in defense of my son, who has been deprived of his father, and he cannot protest. As his father it is my duty to speak out for him and defend him. I love my son and it hurts me much to have him taken out of my life, and he is hurting also because of this. He also loves, needs, and misses his father. She is living under the delusion that she owns my son like shd wd own a bicycle. I have suffered much emotional pain and suffering as a result of her taking my son away from me.
I have always held the position that we are a family that shd never be broken up. A commitment is a commitment is a commitment. If you are not mature and responsible enuff to keep a commitment then you shd not make it in the first place. There is never any justification or excuse for breaking a commitment. She alone is to blame for her breaking her commitment and breaking up the family.
A man has everything to lose by a woman leaving him and taking what she can from him, but she herself has nothing to lose, but she gains much including money and/or property and/or children, (which she deprives him of raising). But she knew this before she married him: it is not by chance that it happens this way, but to cover herself she must find a way to transfer the guilt onto a man. Most relationships are by the wife. A woman can say "It just isn't working out." This is not true: Rather, the fact is that she never loved nor wanted him in the first place (other than wanting him, or shall I say using him, for sex and financial gain). Love is not here today and gone tomorow. This is not the nature of love. If "love" is not there any more then it never was there in the first place.
Men do not abandon their children, but are made to appear to have done so, and this is because the woman blocks him out, then orchestrates things to make oit look like he abandoned her. Anything to take the focuss off of her. Again, there is never any justification for this. She alone is to blame here, and it has nothing to do with the man. It has to do with taking the responsibility for your own actions and stop passing the blame onto others. She CHOSE to commit to him. No one forced her at gunpoint to make a false commitment. Morally and ethically what she has done is wrong, and this morality and ethics has nothing to do with any court or legal system. Courts by their very nature are amoral (without morals). Divine Principles trump everything else. Women attempt to justify their immoral behavior by getting a judge to rubber stamp it. But even tho a judge sanctions it, in their hearts they know that they have done wrong. (Here is a bad teaching of Christianity [Romans 13] that those in authority over us are "God's servants" doing God's will and that by submitting to them we are submitting to God's ordained authority --- the courts) and by this bad teaching the wife tries to justify that what she has done is right.)
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As
my son
had his 4th birthday
on April 24, 2024, I have been denied the blessing of being with him
for this, and I was not allowed to send him a birthday gift because I
am not even told where he (they) are staying. It's the "golden rule":
He who has the gold makes the rules.
To my
surprise I was allowed to
video chat with Asher yesterday, June 16, (today is Father's Day) which
was the first time in 3 months, yet other than this I know nothing of
what goes on in his life, and still do not know where he is. I am still
otherwise blocked out of his life. I am told nothing about
him.
Sept
8, 2024, she has declared that she has from now on stopped
all
communication with me and I am totally cut off from my son in every
way. This is mental torture.
Nov
3, 2024, I am
again accussed of
"running away" from my son. What a stupid thing to say! She needs to
accuse me of something to take the focus away from her and the fact
that she committed marriage fraud and was using me for money, sex, and
a ticket to Canada. Am I
afraid of him like meeting a hungry lion in the jungle that I will run
away from him?! I
needn't argue this point because the level of stupidity in her
statement speaks for itself.
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Nov
20, 2024
marks one year that my son and I have
been
separated,
forced out by my wife. I am totally deprived of him, and know nothing
about him that is going on, and not even allowed to voice chat with
him. I have and am suffering much sorrow, grief, and sadness being
deprived of my son.
Christmas 2024
... I am deprived of my son for the 2d
Christmas
in a
row. I am told nothing about his Christmas there (not that I wd expect
her to tell the truth about it anyway) and not even one foto of him.
Who does she think she is, lording it over me like this, like Asher is
her weapon that she is using against me and is
making me suffer in anguish and as a way of control and
domination?
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Now
to the issue of marriage. In March
2017 I was in Zambia for only 1 week to get the tribal and
civil
marriages done with (a civil marriage was required to bring
her to
Canada). As far as the tribal marriage was concerned, I was instructed
to pay the
dowry to Martin. The civil marriage was conducted
that
same or the next day, and had as its basis the tribal marriage.
Chipo lied about loving me, her only interest was material
gain, a
ticket to Canada, and sperm. This tribal marriage was a fraud, with
Martin and Chipo's mother: Jane as the two other key players. As part
of the payment of the dowry was my right to bring any problem in the
marriage to
Chipo's mother Jane, yet when I followed thru with bringing my
complaint to her, she automatically rejected it. Follow the money. (and
the sperm) |
1-2-2025 I
am still deprived of Asher with no communcation with him. It is
emotional torture what she has done: to shut my son
totally our of
my life and make Asher suffer also to be without his father who he
loves and misses, and needs, and mourns in his own way.
April 8th. I have been
refused
permission
to be with my own son of his birthday (April 24) as if I need
permission! Who does she think she is? God? I am also refused to be
told his address so I cannot send him a birthday gift, and know
nothing about him and am still cut off from him.
| After
she and her family in Zambia ("Bible believing" Adventists)
have used me for as much as they want get from me, and I have
remaining with me here what I have in my locker at the
homeless shelter. But
they are all "Christians" and attend church. What a wonderful religion
these people have! Dosn't it make you want to join their church?
Halleluiah! Praise the Lord! Go
to hell! |
This denying me of being able to raise my son continued to this day, as does her theft of my personal property, which she has been depriving me access to, both of which have been continuing for more than 2 years, and constitute theft under the CCC (If all of my property is still even there any more). To hell with me: homeless and destitute and physical issues to deal with.
Feb
18, 2026. I
got the medical report 3 days ago which classifies me as legally
unemployable, (and I am awaiting two further surgeries) there is
no possibility of renting an apartment. So under these
conditions I am
doomed to stay at a homeless shelter indefinitely. But does she care?
No! She just uses me, then after she gets what she wants from me,
she
dumps me, and if my life wastes away, but she dosn't
mind. Go to church with her and sing about the love of God,
but
never mind how you live your life and how you treat other
people. What a wonderful religion these
people have! Amen?
Please protest against Chipo by contacting her personally: 780-531-7603 csiamafuwa@yahoo.com or her place of employment which is Bethel Happy Daycare that someone who has done what she has done is not setting a good example and shd not be working at a child care facility. Bethel's email address is info@bethelhappydaycare.com